I am the father of 2 teenage boys and they both are car nuts. I am 55 years old and I respect your wanting a STi. I commute every day 65 miles round trip in snow, sleet and occasional sun. The STi is a great car if you like to hear the motor. I came from SUV's (Cayenne, GWagen) which is not that far from a Wrangler in some sense. I am happy that your parents instilled in you a fear/loathing of drugs. Stay far away. I am a little concerned about your judgement if you think that you got fined for driving your girlfriend home. You got a ticket for disobeying the law. Period. Own it.
Unfortunately, with two tickets (one was a moving violation, correct?) you are going to be paying through the nose for your insurance. So, if I were your father (and I know I am not) I would suggest that you look at the insurance cost for the next four years of college for an STi versus a WRX versus a CrossTrek or similar. I would insist that you pay for your insurance and your tickets. If you can afford a STi go for it. But remember the cost to insure it. And please do not compare yourself to other kids and their stupidity.....I am sure that your parents did not buy that either.
Good luck.
Unfortunately, with two tickets (one was a moving violation, correct?) you are going to be paying through the nose for your insurance. So, if I were your father (and I know I am not) I would suggest that you look at the insurance cost for the next four years of college for an STi versus a WRX versus a CrossTrek or similar. I would insist that you pay for your insurance and your tickets. If you can afford a STi go for it. But remember the cost to insure it. And please do not compare yourself to other kids and their stupidity.....I am sure that your parents did not buy that either.
Good luck.